Why do I feel like you made this up? Like you made a fake account or something
either way what a bitch move, he was being pretty nice and normal. even the love plea was okay till the word ‘worship’ and even that i’m not too bothered by
all she had to do was say she wasn’t interested in dating him (And maybe try to be friends??? human decency?) but instead she just tore him a new asshole over being maybe a bit too open about his feelings like he’s not worthy of respect cause he was so awestruck by her that he looked her up and just had to get to know her…
like, yeah, he’s talked to you for five minutes only cause that’s the only time of day you’d fucking give him???? he barely sent her ‘a flood’ it was like 4 messages
jesus christ. how acidic can you get over nothing??????? and be proud of it???? didn’t your mother raise you better?
how else are you supposed to find new people to be friends or date if strangers don’t approach you or look you up?????
people bitch about how women don’t owe men any respect and they also bitch about how men are assholes and only want sex and well, look what happens when nice guys that are not stereotypically attractive try to be nice and just simply talk to people
'treat me with respect' while simultaneously being treated with NONE
there’s a thing called operant conditioning where if you reinforce positive behaviour or punish negative behaviour, you effectively control what the subject psychologically feels safe and confident doing. all this punishment over being a little too interested, the lack of respect- it’s teaching men to do the same to women and disregard them as objects. Because that’s what this is. Treating him like an object and not a human being with real feelings.
coming from someone who’s gone through enough abuse, this sort of shit needs to fucking stop already
^ Thank you
Wow I was expecting to scroll down and find something saying something good about her, not talking shit about how she handled the situation. This guy adds her and keeps talking to her persistently and makes this big deal about talking to her when she only replied a couple times? It’s so obvious to me that this guy is just saying what he thinks she wants to hear because he thought she was hot and wants to do her lmfao. Honestly I would have sent him a similar message in this situation. I’m sorry, but anyone who comes off the way this guy did just doesn’t have good intentions at all.
And then she gets called a bitch because she shut him down? How? She doesn’t owe him anything at all. He plainly has the wrong idea and she told him that. This whole thing about “How are you supposed to meet new people?” Yea look here, when I meet new people, I talk to them and find common interests, like “Hey you like Mario?” and stuff like that? I don’t just go to “Yea you’re my princess beauty.” There is NO way that ANYONE who didn’t just want to have sex would say that kind of stuff honestly based on this little bit of conversation.
I don’t normally leave comments on posts like these but I’m just amazed and I had to say something.
Uhm also are we forgetting the part where he felt entitled to stalk her fb account (and her) because he thought she was attractive? Or the part where he said “can’t believe you didn’t delete your Facebook” or of the sorts because DAMN THATS CREEPY.
Exactly! And I’ve actually dealt with this kinda creepy shit before. I met a friend of a friend once, and we all hung out for an hour or so. We didn’t really talk that much, but before I left he asked for my number. He seemed like a “nice guy” so I gave it too him.
Afterwards, he texted me a bunch of cheesy stuff, assuming a bunch of things about my personality based on the ONE HOUR we had hung out. It kinda rubbed me the wrong way, but I didn’t wanna be rude.
Then he said I had really pretty eyes. I knew it was a line, so I called him out on it. I asked him what color eyes I had. He had no idea, and apologized, and said he was only trying to be nice.
I actually had to explain to him why lying to get in a girls pants is not a “nice” thing to do.
i once met a friend of a friend out one night, we barely talked, i didnt even remember his name but he still added me on fb. he messaged me a bit and seemed relatively nice. somewhere in there i mentioned where i worked and 2 days later he showed up at my work and stayed for 6 HOURS! he even came to lunch with me even though he didnt eat. back then i was afraid of anyone disliking me so i didnt know how to get rid of him. he only ended up leaving because one of the other girls (she could see i was uncomfortable) came over and told (she made it up) him the manager had asked him to leave.
when I got home i already had 4 msgs on fb. I (very politely) told him I thought maybe he had gotten the wrong impression and that I was flattered but not interested, and then I went to have dinner. in the 30-45 mins I was away from the computer he sent me about 10 msgs ranging from ‘you’re a fucking bitch’ to ‘I just want to be friends lets hang out’ to ‘you’re a self-centered cow, dont jump to the conclusion that everyone wants you’ back to ‘maybe we could go to the movies on the weekend’
guys can be fucking creepy as hell and we dont owe them our friendship or anything else just because they want it or even if they’re a nice guy. (even if they are a genuinely nice guy! sometimes we just dont want to be friends!)
WOW WHAT THE FUCK ….I was expecting the commentary to be like fuck yeah shut him down …but instead its two asshole neckbeards agreeing with another neckbeard for being an entitled creepy stalking fuck rag …
So, I love Dita, but it kind of pisses me off that she had a whole marketing campaign for her lingerie line “Von Follies” of being accepting toward curvier women. The band sizes only go up to 36” and the cup only goes up to DD. I don’t mean to be a debby downer but I dont…
I whole heartily agree with margadita! She DOES offer those sizes but its up to the buyers to choose which sizes to stock Dita really has no control over that but SHE DOES provide those sizes! I know ASOS has purchased her plus sizes range but cups are still on the small side so heres what you should do ladies …BUY THE SHIT OUT OF THOSE SIZES and demand Asos carry more sizes because they need to hear from YOU the buyer to show them that that demand is there! Dita has provided the sizes pressure Asos to carry them now!
Does your brand of feminism remove barriers for women, or simply move them around? Does is expand options for women, or does it just shift them? You don’t liberate women by forcing them to choose option B instead of option A. What is comfortable for you might not be comfortable for someone else, and it’s entirely possible that what you see as oppressive, other women find comfortable or even downright liberating.
Before you think the girl in the middle is a strawman, let me tell you I used to be her, back in my misguided youth. I considered myself the standard to which other people should adhere. But that was stupid. It’s not up to me to tell people how to dress, and it’s much nicer to let everyone choose for themselves.
Some women would feel naked without a veil. Some women would find it restrictive. Some women would feel restricted by a bra. Some women would feel naked without one. Some women would feel restricted by a tight corset. Others love them. Some wear lots of clothes with a corset. Some only wear the corset and nothing else. What makes any article of clothing oppressive is someone forcing you to wear it. And it’s just as oppressive to force someone not to wear something that they want to wear.